The dumpers that come back shortly after the separation usually leave very soon again. It s been about 1 5 years and i still don t regret it actually i m happier without my ex.
Dumper s remorse as i call it is very real.
Dumpers regret months later. Dumper s remorse is a situation where your ex breaks up with you and a few months afterwards they regret their decision. I never would regret that i dumped my ex the line was crossed. It all depends of the reasons and the setting of the breakup.
This stage may not apply to everyone but it s relevant if they caught you cheating or betraying them. More often than not dumpers come back after months or years rather than days after the breakup. By this stage the dumper should have a firmer idea of what the dumpee means to them.
I m going to take that situation and reverse engineer the process so you can understand what s going on in an ex s brain and also figure out how to give this remorse a good chance of growing. As a result of anxiety the dumper ponders what he or she could have done differently to prevent the break up from happening. The answer is different for everyone but many men will experience a pang of regret within about a month to six weeks after breaking up with you.
I went nc straight away and didn t hear from him at all and from what friends had told me he was having a great time. Signs of dumper s regret. This may be the catalyst that tips the dumper over the edge causing them to decide to end the relationship.
Should the prevailing feeling be regret over breaking up you can expect the dumper to. So basically the more months go by after the breakup the better it is for the dumpee. 3 months later he shows up on my doorstep to tell me the truth about everything that he left me to sleep with a girl he works with but he realized soon after that he was an idiot to have done so and he regrets everything and.
Do dumpers come back after months. Personally i have been on both sides the dumper and dumped. When the dumper realizes what he or she is missing out on the dumper starts to regret his or her decision especially if the dumper is alone or unhappy in his her new relationship.
The 9 stages of a breakup for the dumper 1. The acute stage of dumper s regret is over and by the month mark it is coalescing into something tangible something that can be worked on and shaped.